World Down Syndrome Day, observed annually on March 21st, is a global moment to recognize the contributions of individuals with Down syndrome within communities worldwide. This story highlights one family’s unexpected path to parenthood through adoption, and how faith played a central role.
From Infertility to Unexpected Grace
Heather and Josh Avis experienced years of painful infertility, marked by tireless efforts and unanswered prayers. After exhausting medical options, their dream of having biological children seemed irrevocably lost. Yet, in their grief, they found an invitation from God to explore a different path: adopting a child with Down syndrome.
The opportunity arose when their Romanian social worker alerted them to infants awaiting placement, specifically those with Down syndrome, who were considered “difficult to place.” Despite initial hesitation, Heather and Josh realized that a child needed parents, and they were willing to provide a home. Their reasoning was simple: the need was there, and so were they.
A Rewarding, Challenging Journey
The adoption process wasn’t without obstacles, but the Avis family found unexpected fulfillment in welcoming their child. Heather documented their story in her book, The Lucky Few, detailing both the heartache of infertility and the joy of raising children, including one with Down syndrome. She shares how God prompted them to adopt three children total.
How to Learn More & Get Involved
The Avis family’s experience will be shared on Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, available on radio, online platforms (Spotify, Apple Podcasts), and through their free app. The show may inspire listeners to consider adoption or provide support to adoptive families.
For those interested in learning more about adoption, the Focus on the Family program Wait No More offers resources and opportunities for couples to adopt or participate in foster care and respite care programs. Heather’s book, The Lucky Few, is available as a gift with any donation to Focus on the Family by calling 1-800-A-FAMILY (232-6459) or visiting their website.
Ultimately, this story illustrates how unexpected paths can lead to profound fulfillment, and how faith can guide families through the complexities of infertility and adoption. It underscores the value of considering adoption or supporting adoptive families in their journey.
